It is a tough time to be a young attorney.
For one, a good lot of us have been laid off.[FN1] For another, the few of us who haven’t been laid off have been slammed with so much work we barely can keep up. With so many Associates gone, somebody’s had to pick up the slack. Young Associates today are either 1) no longer Associates, or 2) no longer aware of what daylight looks like.
Which is a shame. I have blogged extensively about the embarrassment I have felt at losing my job and at being regarded as less than a lawyer. But I haven’t blogged about the other side of the Great Disaster, and that is the meta-shame. Meta-shame is the feeling that kicks in after I’ve cried my eyes out about losing my job and then moved on to feeling bad about crying my eyes out. Meta-shame is what happens when I realize I’m actually quite well-off with my income, my Captain, my apartment, and my ability to satisfy my urges to shop victoriously.[FN2] Meta-shame, in other words, is yet another way I’ve been made to feel bad about myself by a bunch of incompetent managers.
And I know I’m not the only one. My friend the Lathamette is, as you’ve probably guessed, one of the lucky few still working at Latham and she’s definitely been earning her keep. Thirteen hours at the office here, last-minute flights to client sites there – she’s probably already made up the deficit she was running earlier this year. Nevertheless, she still feels bad complaining, especially in front of me, because she still has a job.
Which I think is just a bunch of hooey. Honey, they took away my job only to make you feel worse about yours. They created for the both us a mantle of guilt, guilt designed to distract us from seeing that, actually, none of this was our fault. At all.
So cast off thy meta-shame and raise with me your middle finger. This is all a bunch of hooey.
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FN1. As of yesterday, LawShucks estimates the grand total to be 10,000 since Cadwalader got the guillotine going last January. Ten. thousand.
FN2. A recession is a recession, after all. No full-price Ferragamos here.